Snooze!

Okay, I am so bored! No exciting sales at all the past few days! I think I have to started to think that the stuff I'm selling is awesome stuff so of course it's going to sell and sell fast, right? WRONG! I have had watchers on a lot of stuff but no bids! I was hoping that I would get some bids right before the auctions end but that hasn't really happened either. Yesterday I did get a bid on a pair of women's GAP jeans I was selling for starting the auction at $5 buck a Roos. Well someone bid then the auction ended so they got a great deal (not so good for me). What stinks is that they still haven't paid so I'm starting to worry a bit. How long do you give a buyer to pay? If they never do, should I just relist the item? I'm so new to eBay and I'm still unsure about a lot of things. Another thing I'm confused about. I went over my 50 free listings a month so I have been paying to list more stuff, but do I have to pay an insertion fee every single week that I list the item? If that's the case then that is really going to add up. Also a bunch of my 50 free listings have ended and I want to relist them but when I do it says it's going to charge me an insertion fee. I thought these were still free? Am I wrong? I really need some clarity on this. So I haven't been listing too much because I don't want to pay an arm and a leg. Gosh this was easier when I had under 50 listings and it was free. Not sure how I should continue. I went to one thrift store today and found some cute stuff to list. An adorable toddler Juicy Couture skirt for a buck! Two pairs of baby gap jeans for 2 bucks each, a pair of guess jeans for my little guy for 4 bucks (I don't usually spend that much on jeans but they are in great condition and he needed another pair) 2 Roxy skirts for my daughter for 3 bucks each and a pair of Carter's jeans for baby that are so cute and look new! I hope I an get these listed and someone will want them. I don't know, I'm just feeling a little confused and unsure about this whole eBay thing. I think I could really love doing it but I'm worried I'm going to spend more money than I am actually going to make you know? Any thoughts? Well it's been a long day and I'm going to bed super early. Nighty night!